What comes to mind when you think of Christmas? Decorated trees, shopping, colorful lights, expense, cookies, debt, fatigue, joy, football games on TV, Christ’s saving power?
After a flurry of phone calls from people feeling sad and lonely about the Christmas season, I got to thinking about what states of mind would cause one to feel depressed when there is such great reason to celebrate. And I decided it came down to how one thought of Christmas in the first place.
Over the centuries, a lot of mortal traditions and practices have been added onto Christmas. Today, in my culture anyway, Christmas is often associated with shopping, buying and giving presents, parties, get-togethers with family, meals, desserts, colorful decorations, and yes, a few church services celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ on Christmas Eve. The spiritual significance of the day often gets lost in the preponderance of commercialism and society surrounding the event, though.
I reasoned, that if one's concept of Christmas becomes diluted and besieged by the social and commercial aspects commonly associated with the day, it’s easy to see how one might get depressed and demoralized about Christmas.
For example, if one associates Christmas with family get-togethers, and that one has no family, they might feel left out or excluded from something good. Or, if one associates Christmas with receiving presents from others, and doesn’t get any presents, they might feel forgotten and left out. And the list goes on…
Anytime one feels lack, loss or deprivation, it’s typically a sign that hope is being placed in something material that doesn’t work out.
So, what's the remedy?
It’s to move hope and expectancy from the material to the spiritual.
Christmas is about the coming of Christ. It's true significance has nothing to do with parties and meals and cookies and drink. It’s a spiritual event that occurs within, in a very private place between us and God.
The birth of Jesus was fulfillment of the prophesied Messiah—the Word made flesh—the healing power of God apparent in a form that humanity could understand at the time. Today, Christ is at work in the form of divine Science leavening human consciousness around the planet with healing spiritual truth.
Christmas day serves to remind us of Christ’s on-going activity, saving mankind from sin, disease and death beliefs.
So how do we participate in the fullness of Christmas? Through quiet prayer, most likely, turning to God and striving to understand Christ better and the benefits received from Christ loving and caring for us.
When catching the true spirit of Christmas, it’s impossible to be lonely for Christ fills the void with spiritual understanding and love that meets the deepest human needs.
Getting together with family or friends is certainly a fine activity. Nothing wrong with that! But if one is not part of an active social circle, that doesn’t mean they can’t have just as joyous a Christmas day as anyone else. Christ is what makes the day special, and Christ speaks and companions each of us no matter where we are or what kind of circumstances we face.
True Christmas is not a social activity, but a spiritual event everyone has been invited to. Accept the invitation and enjoy the company!
Lots of love...
4 comments:
Evan, this is absolutely beautiful and satisfying. I especially liked the thought that the Christ coming is a spiritual event that everyone is invited to...and that there can be no loss if our expectations are placed in the spiritual, not material. Thank you.
fantastic -- I love it!
Evan,
This recalls a Christmas experience when I moved from the East to Helena, Montana. I was only a year or so into my study of Christian Science, and I had packed all of my belongings into a French Citroen auto and gone West from Philadelphia. In Helena I was just becoming acquainted with the Christian Scientists there, and since several families all invited me to Christmas Day meals and events, I decided I didn't want to hurt feelings by choosing one family over another, so I decided to spend Christmas like Mrs. Eddy said she enjoyed doing, "in quietude, humility, benevolence, charity, letting good will towards man, eloquent silence, prayer, and praise express my conception of Truth's appearing" (My 262:27).
So adamant was I in this intent that I failed to realize how much my new friends really wanted to share their Christmas with me. One morning, after several days of refusing their invitations, I awoke feeling rather ill. As I prayed to correct this sense of dis-ease, it suddenly came to me clearly that I should gratefully accept this love that was reaching out to embrace me. I saw clearly, that these new friends were not just people trying to be nice, but were individually and collectively the evidence that divine Love Itself was in this new place, meeting my needs in every way.
I immediately called each of the families and told them I would be so happy to share their Christmas Day, and I was immediately well of the illness I had felt.
It proved to be one of the happiest Christmases I had spent sense leaving home a few years earlier. What a blessing, as that Christmas Day was filled with sharing and giving by an entire Church family.
Thanks for the Christmas story on your Sunday, December 21st entry. How wonderfully we learn the lesson of Christmas, that Christ is ever-present today to bless us and enables us to bless others. These lessons teach us to let divine Love guide us in our expression of gratitude and joy, and thus we learn what it means to unselfishly love others in ways that bless all. To me, this became the practical expression of what Mrs. Eddy says about how she loved to spend Christmas.
Kenn, thanks for sharing your story! Wow, what a wake-up!
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